Unspoken
Learn how to have the conversations we don’t know how to have
A Tender Warrior Council · 90 minutes on Zoom
What we don’t talk about fills the space within us and between us, shaping how we feel, what we believe, and how close we let each other come.
We can learn to have these conversations — to find words for our experience, listen with curiosity, and stay connected when something feels difficult. Council gives us a place to practice, together.
Have you ever had something to contribute, but didn’t want to fight to have your voice heard?
Council is a place to collectively take a breath. To listen deeply, speak from experience, and discover what becomes possible when we give one another our attention.
What to expect
Jordan guides a living conversation through prompts, reflections, and opportunities to deepen. We’ll combine an introduction to Tender Warrior with relational skills practice, following what emerges from the people present.
Come prepared to:
Listen and share, at a level that feels comfortable.
Offer your full attention, with your camera on and distractions set aside.
Be witnessed and witness others, with care and curiosity.
No prior experience needed.
Our next session will be:
Unspoken: The Covid Pandemic
What are we still carrying from Covid? What’s unprocessed, unwitnessed, and unmetabolized?
We all went through a collective trauma that changed our sense of safety. Our capacity to trust. Relationships that broke apart. Things we lost. So much changed, and so much remains unspoken.
What we don’t talk about continues to grow in the shadows. Together, we begin naming what’s in the room — and sharing the weight of what we’ve been carrying alone.
Save the date — details coming soon
Planned for Tuesday, 11/17: 5–6:30 p.m. Pacific · Online via Zoom
Registration info will be provided soon, use the form below to save your spot.
What it is
A space to feel, reflect, and connect
A space to take off your mask and be seen
A practice to increase your emotional capacity in the face of overwhelm, numbness, and disconnection
What it isn’t
Group therapy
A place to debate or intellectualize about political issues
A space to rescue, fix, or give advice
This is for you if…
If any of the following apply, these council sessions may be a good fit for you.
You want to move beyond small talk and connect more deeply
You feel overwhelmed, shut down, or generally stressed out by navigating life in the era of cascading crises
You struggle with self-trust, finding your voice, or sharing with confidence
You feel emotionally exhausted or drained by social interactions
You want to connect but experience social anxiety in group settings
You feel called to co-create a culture of mutual support and resilience
Contact / Waiting list
If you have any questions or if you’d like to be notified when registration is open, please use this form to contact us.